Family Meals
Maundy Thursday
Exodus 12.1-14; 1 Corinthians 11.23-26; John
13.1-17, 31b-35
St. Thomas of Canterbury, Long Beach and St. Gregory’s, Long Beach
Live Streamed
on St. Thomas Facebook Page (beginning at 15:30)
For
many, the family meal is sacrosanct. Of course, there are some family meals
that are more special, more sacred, than others. Some of the obvious ones in
our culture are the big holidays such as Thanksgiving, Christmas, maybe Easter.
In some families, some of these meals take on an almost iconic aura, involving
specific decorations, the use of special dishes, and most importantly the
inclusion of particular foods. Some of these are so sacred that one dare not
even think about changing certain aspects of the meal. Thanksgiving dinner is
perhaps among the most inviolable, with an estimated 88 percent of families
having turkey (according to the National Turkey Federation). And certainly each
family has other dishes that need to be included. In mine, it is acceptable to
tinker with how the potatoes are done or what type of dressings are fixed. But
we insist on my mother’s cranberry salad and her sweet potato casserole. And
for us, Christmas is always, always, always, Mom’s lasagna. We almost kicked my
brother-in-law out of the family last year when he suggested that maybe we not
have lasagna for Christmas because of Mom having chemotherapy just a few days
before Christmas. Mom was not deterred, and we still had lasagna last year.
There are some things you just don’t mess with. So yes, special family meals
and associated traditions are pretty high on the list of sacred events.
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