What Defines Who You Are?

Eighth Sunday after Pentecost – Proper 13 (Year C)

Luke 12.13.-21

St. Gregory’s, Long Beach

Live Streamed on Parish Facebook Page (beginning at 19:20)

 

One of the things I particularly enjoy is watching YouTube videos on such topics as minimalism, essentialism, decluttering, and organization. Always searching for tips and ideas about how I can live a more minimalist lifestyle. In the strictest sense, a minimalist is one who only has what they absolutely need to live. The idea being that much of what we have is not really necessary and, if anything, distracts us and gets in the way of living more intentionally and doing what matters most to us. Invariably, the focus is about creating space in our lives for what is essential: for our relationships and for pursing those activities which contribute to who we ultimately want to be. Whatever and whoever that is for the individual. In the church, we would use the language of focusing on those relationships, on those things and activities, that help us to live more fully into who God has created and is calling us to be as beloved children of God.

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OUR Father

Seventh Sunday after Pentecost – Proper 12 (Year C)

Luke 11.1-13

St. Gregory’s, Long Beach

Live Streamed on Parish Facebook Page (beginning at  23:15)

 

The disciples were very familiar with Jesus’ relationship with God. That God—at least, according to Jesus—was his father. Now, how literally they took that is anyone’s guess. Did they really believe that Jesus was the actual, physical, Son of God? Or did they believe that Jesus, as the Messiah, the Anointed One, the One chosen by God to be his chief messenger, was the metaphorical son of God? Just as we would recognize any person—regardless of their messianic status—as a son or daughter, as a child, of God. Regardless of their own understanding, the disciples had certainly become accustomed to hearing Jesus refer to God as Father. In fact, there are places in the Gospels where Jesus refers to God as Abba, which we translate as “Father,” but is more accurately translated as “Daddy” or some other more intimate and familiar term for father. So, yeah, it would have been pretty obvious to the disciples that Jesus had a close and intimate relationship with God as his Father.

 

While we are used to thinking of God as Father, such thinking would not have been commonplace, or even normal, for Jesus’ disciples. It may be okay for Jesus to think of God as Father, but they most likely would not have been comfortable viewing God as their Father. In that time and culture, the role and place of “father” was viewed very differently than we commonly view it today. In a time when women were second-class citizens at best and often viewed as property, and children were even lower in status than women, the father as head of the family had absolute power over the lives of family members. Far-reaching and coercive power that even extended to control over adult children. Now, how that authority was wielded, how the father actually dealt with the members of his own family, varied father by father, family by family. And we certainly see throughout the Old Testament examples of fathers who were kind, loving, and benevolent toward their children. But the absolute authority that came with the role of father would have been there, in the back of the mind of those subject to their father. As my own father once noted with respect to who has authority over whom in the military, the one with the superior rank never thinks about it and the one who is subordinate never forgets it. In other words, awareness of who has authority over you becomes a part of you.

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Driven to Distraction

Sixth Sunday after Pentecost – Proper 11 (Year C)

Luke 10.38-42

St. Gregory's, Long Beach

Live Streamed on Parish Facebook Page (beginning at 18:45)

 

Six years ago, I was looking for a job. One of the places I was in the search process was St. Gregory’s. In fact, I was one of the finalists for the job as your Rector. And six years ago yesterday, I had my formal interviews with the Vestry. The interviews that would determine whether I would become the fourth Rector of St. Gregory’s, or whether one of the other candidates would have that honor. I remember that day well. All too well.

 

That Saturday morning, as I got ready for the interview, I was feeling all excited and self-confident. And a little nervous, of course. But I was prepared. I had brought my best suit to wear. I brought a clergy collar and the accessories to fasten it to my clergy shirt. I brought a cross to wear. I had everything I needed to make a good impression. To dress the part of the parish priest. And then came the horrible realization that I forgot to pack a clergy shirt. A critical piece of the priest’s “uniform.” As I was getting ready to leave the day before, I had become so distracted, so worried, about beating the Friday afternoon traffic that I had not doublechecked to make sure I had everything I needed.

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Go and Do Likewise

Fifth Sunday after Pentecost – Proper 10 (Year C)

Luke 10.25-37

St. Gregory’s, Long Beach

Live Streamed on Parish Facebook Page (beginning at 18:20)

 

Things were going so well. This lawyer comes to Jesus and asks “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” A noble question. In asking something of that nature, the man must have really wanted to live a good and righteous life. Good for him. In typical Jesus fashion, he turns it back to the man: “What is written in the law?” Probably trying to see if his response might give an indication of where the man’s heart really was. Whether he was sincere, or whether he was just trying to game the system. Jesus obviously felt that turning to the Jewish law would be a good starting place. The man answers, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” Ding, ding, ding! Perfect answer. He hit all the salient points of the law. “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.”

 

Instead of going and doing likewise, the man goes into lawyer mode. He asks, “and who is my neighbor?” Now, we have no way of knowing the intent behind the follow-up question. Was the lawyer trying to cover his bases and wanting to make sure he knows what is meant by “neighbor,” so that he can squeak by with minimal effort, with only loving those that he absolutely had to love in order to obtain eternal life? Or did he somehow sense that the key to all of this was in the definition of “neighbor” and so he was seeking to be as inclusive as possible?

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Instructions for Ministry

Fourth Sunday after Pentecost – Proper 9 (Year C)

Luke 10.1-11, 16-20

St. Gregory’s, Long Beach

Live Streamed on Parish Facebook Page (beginning at 20:15)

 

Ministry is hard. Sure, sometimes things go really well. People are receptive to hearing the Gospel. Sometimes—most of the time—people are appreciative of the work that we do on their behalf. But that does not mean that it is always easy. It takes a lot of work. A lot of time and energy. A lot of resources. But, when it goes well, it is all worth the effort. We walk away from those situations with a sense of satisfaction. With a sense of having fulfilled our purpose. With a sense of having truly lived the Gospel as Jesus commands us to do. That we “nailed it.”

 

And then there are those times when ministry can feel like we’re beating your head against a brick wall. When things just don’t go the way we planned. When, despite our best efforts, they are not appreciated. Those are the times when it is easy to question, “why bother?” When we walk away from those situation with a sense of failure. With a sense of not doing what God called us to do. With a sense of not having lived the Gospel as Jesus commands us to do. Thankfully, those times are generally few and far between. And generally, not because of our lack of trying, because of our lack of commitment. Although, in the moment, it is easy to think that things fell apart because we were not good enough, that we are not cut out for this. But the reality is that sometimes, for whatever reason, those whom we seek to minister to just don’t want to hear what we have to say. Don’t want a part of what we have to offer.

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